Monday, 11 February 2008

Love or Respect

Which is more important? Showing love or showing respect?

I think for a husband showing respect is more important, but for a wife the situation is quite different.

Women want to feel they’re loved more than anything else. They’re different in everything. How can you get the right equation then? A decent man, or say a gentleman, would do anything but not disrespect a woman because it is important for him to be treated the same way.

Of course to have both love and respect will be great for both, husband and wife. But which one without it the life is unbearable? That depends on who you’re asking!

13 comments:

فتى الجبل said...

i think that our life need both...
love & respect

Eng_Q8 said...

nice post

مبروك حق مصر :p

Mohammad Al-Yousifi said...

both

and we are poor in it

الزرقاء و ندى الجنة said...

I think both is needed . However, in certain circumstances you can live without love but not without respect. as it is in Quran :
وعسى ان تكرهوا شيئا وهو خير لكم

but if someone loves you and has no respect then I think love can convert easily to hate.

bass said...

WE DESERVE BOTH GENTELMEN ?

Organic Kuwait said...

how can someone show love but at the same time show no respect ? i cant imagine such a situation..

respect is important between human beings but i dont understand it in a husband and wife situation how can u not respect the love of ur life?

Peace said...

بالنسبه الى
افراد الاسره الواحده
فالحب و الاحترام
ضروريان


و لكن بالنسبه لافراد المجتمع
فالاحترام
ياتي بالمقام الاول

M said...

الإحترام بالدرجة الأولى

أحياناً كثيرة يستحيل الحب في العلاقة الزوجية لأسباب عديدة, الإحترام قد يسمح للسفينة بمواصلة المسير بالذات في حال وجود أطفال.

الحياة بدون حب باهتة لكنها مو مستحيلة.

Manal said...

LOVE is beautiful, RESPECT is what relationships are built on.


we will always share love and respect


to keep

our happy family last forever

insha alah




your wife

RLdVW said...

Who could define "Love"?

Manal said...

Hi rldvw

I don't think people can define LOVE

chemists can define water but people will say it is only water
drink it and you can understand what water is

LOVE is the same

but for a good relationship
LOVE needs RESPECT

this combination is the fuel for a happy family

don't you think so??
:)

any way
I found a good link about LOVE and RESPECT

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/339083/which_is_more_important_love_or_respect.html

read it, and hope this will help


THANK YOU

|:| DUBAI |:| said...

Frankly, we need them both :$ !

eshda3wa said...

for me its definitely respect